I think, it is important to know and we should find it out what we are in reality. If we know, we can try at least to correct ourselves/ our behavior/attitude. Honestly, I am neither brave nor coward but I am tend to worrying badly! And, I hate to see me in this situation. I, of course, want to get rid of it!
Today, I searched on net and read about how to be brave and bold! I read,'' Worry does not contribute anything to a situation, it only robs you of the ability to enjoy the present moment.''
Actually, why do we worry? If we think carefully, we can see, most of the time we worry for nothing! I have found myself many times in this situations. But, hence I have not learned yet!
I passed many days worrying, I did not or could not sleep many nights due to worrying. But, later I found I had been worried unnecessarily. I found, what had made me worry or what I took so frightening/threatening actually in reality it/they were not that much serious! Then, I laughed at me but you know how did I pass that/those days and nights! But, I have to admit I got what I deserved! lol
So, I think, I should stop worrying. And, from this moment and onward, I must try to remember it!
Fortunately, at the end of a day or in the long run, we win most of the games/races. So, why to worry! Most of the time we get better result or job than our expectation. Even, our health condition turns out better after seeing a doctor and following their instructions/advice. Most of the time we can see better after wearing our glasses. Our blood sugar level turns down after having a diet and regular exercise. And, the most important thing is, if we worry less/ do not worry at all then we can feel better, we can see better, we can process a situation better!
what are my worries? Okay, let me name some, I do worry thinking, what I will do/feel if the power goes off, but see most of the time when I use elevator power does not go off! What will happen if I get poor marks, truly, I always get average marks, not poor not so good! I always worry, what if I die now and then.....actually how can I say what I will do if I die now?! Even, I sometimes, start worrying after posting a blog....lol
So, stop worrying and laugh more! And, you can read this link.
http://dianegottsman.com/2016/10/how-to-be-confident-brave-bold/
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Omg, how are you so sweet bet,
You searched on net how to be brave? Well, let me tell you one thing, as you probably didn’t realize - It requires a brave heart to write something like this as you did.
So, you are a brave person :)
To worry is part of every humans life. Oftentimes what we worry about are out coming factors as we can not control, also it can have something to do with mutual expectations. Disappointment triggers worries. To please others triggers worries.
What a cute and honest post. Ooooh, come here I feel like giving you are tight hug <3
Nice topic, Bet.
I agree with the comments from Dara and Rose.
Let me share a dialogue between me and my friend.
FRIEND: It's cloudy. Will we still go?
ME: Why not?
FRIEND: It would be raining.
ME: But the place we visit is not far and it's just cloudy.
FRIEND: Oh, okay....
One minute.
FRIEND: It's drizzling...
ME: C'mon! It's just water, we have umbrella. I even don't need that.
After coming to the place.
ME: Look! Nothing happen to us. ^^
"We just need to prepare anything that could happen, not to worry or stand back easily" ^^
Thanks for advice.. don't worry Be Happy..
BTW you are not alone.. I also worry sometimes that What will happen If I will not attempt paper well, What will happen if I will not get good marks. I also worry when I post blog And in many Other thing I sometimes Get Worry..Then I just say, You can/will do it better, Just Trust On Allah. ELF don't think What Will happen THink what You are Doing (Right Or Wrong).. Your Future depend on your present...:P
keep smile.
stay Blessed
Courage and carelessness are not far from each other. Sometimes we don't pay attention that it can be only a little step from the one to another.
So we should be "worriedly" in the sense of being careful. It doesn't mean to be a coward.
We always should estimate our risk and make the right decision for others and ourselves.
Wrong courage can be dangerous, and to be worried too much can be cowardly.
First of all I want to say that I am not sure about some corrections.
Corrections: In the first paragraph: "And I hate to see myself in this situation." "And/but ofcourse I want to get rid of it"
2 paragraph: "Today I searched in internet and read about how to be brave and bold!"
3 paragraph: "Actually, why do we worry?" "I have found myself in those situations for many times."
4 paragraph: actually or in reality, so no need to use both. "Then I laughed at myself, but do you know how did I pass through those days and nights?"
6 paragraph: "Most of the times" "And the most important thing is if we worry less/ do not worry at all,"
7 paragraph: "what will I do/feel" "what will I do" "Sometimes I even start worrying after posting a blog."
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