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This book is the first English book that I completely finished, and the first book that I have read in a new year, 2017. I was so thrilled rather than excited when I returned the book to the library - I am proud of myself reading a whole book in English.
This book is what I looked for. I needed a book that I could learn how to deal with my negative emotions in a proper way such as anger,
Positive Parenting, the title could be considered positive growing whatever, especially self-growing as a human being. There are several stages of human life. One of them is to raise children. (From this perspective, I believe that children should be raised by their parents rather than grandparents.)
As raising children, we meet ourselves who were how being loved we were when we were children. That's why people are likely to say his/her childhood is important, and home-education is important. We are likely to give love the way being loved. That is the way we unconsciously learn to love others when we were young. This way tends to arise when we meet another-me, who is my child who reflects my childhood.
Humen could not be perfect, even when they become adults. Their children's childhood could be stained with hurt by the imperfect parents because they also were raised by their parents who were imperfect adults. So, no matter how much we put our effort not to make hurt for our children, they would have hurt.
Every person may have hurt received from its parents. The parents did not intend and were even aware of. The matter is whether having hurt or not, but the matter is how we can get over the hurt, and how we do not convey the same hurt to our children consciously.
I often felt I was stuck in my childhood when I was in negative feelings such as anger, nervousness, anxiety, and so on. I would treat my first child as what I was treated when I was young. Then I felt guilty and regret. I wanted to teach my child how to manage negative emotions, but I felt like having to learn it first for myself.
I wanted to learn how to manage negative feelings by understanding myself, as not overwhelmed by negative emotions. Also, I wanted to find a book for how to get over or interpret negative memories in the past, especially my childhood. Furthermore, if it is possible, I wanted to change my point of view for the negatives memories in a positive way.
This book perfectly fits my desires and makes me think of myself. I was so happy while reading this book. I am looking forward to seeing a better myself.