Most of the time, we will spend time on finding others fault. We tell " Government is not making good roads", " Mr X is not acting well with his wife" Our teachers don't know English" "My parents are poor"etc.
Actually what we are doing here? we are finding negative things in others and saying I am not responsible for what I am today. During this action, you are going to stay in the same condition forever. You are not growing to next level.
Spend your thoughts towards finding the good thing in others and try to crab it(Not physically, not his pen or her husband). Try to copy good qualities from others. Then you are going to become a person of all good qualities.
Do a small exercise today. Take one person from family or friends or coworkers. Write down few good qualities of him. Repeat the same thing for a week for different people. It will create a positive attitude towards seeing things positive way.
Thanks for reading. Have a positive day
Comments
Hello Apsuku, you know I think human find complaining easy than thinking how to come up with better solutions for his problems in life. I think what you suggested here is somewhat effective if the person is really trying to improve him/herself for the betterment, but if it's just pretending/faking it for fellows' eyes, it's not worth the try.
Thanks for sharing this! Good job!
Hi apsuku ,
What a wonderful advise you have provided here. Most of the time we are really busy to search the other's fault. But we don't know by doing it we are killing our productivity. Thanks a lot for remembering to us again.