I think honesty, being candor, is one of the greatest quality a person can have. Being honest not only in what we say but also in what we do.I mean, sometimes we pretend to like someone, because we get benefit from them, because we work for them, or to get promotion. We are in a position where we have to like them because we need them. Or, maybe we act, or being such a hypocrite, pretending to be good, when actually we are not that kind of person.Sometimes, dishonesty comes because we don't care to tell truth. Telling the truth is putting us in a risk, crisis in relationship, and conflicts. So I think, there are not many honesty deeds in shallow relationship, because it tends to break easily.We can lie with your words, you can lie with your acts, attitude, or even with your advices, all the good things we do just to get respect or benefits.But dishonesty will be revealed soon or later, that's why after people get married, they discover many things they've never thought before from their couple,Being honest not just only when we try to say "you are kindda overweight", "that suit doesn't suit you", "I don't like with what you do" but be honest in everything we do everyday, and it is hard.
I agree with friends in general. What i want to add is that, the root of this misdeed, is fear. Fear of missing some benefits, fear of missing friends, fear of make somebody angry, fear of losing our stations, fear of people's opinion. But it's so good to know the problem and start to solve it, and good to have friends around to remind us the way .
My friend, firstly learn how to be honest with yourself, then.......no matter will happened. Yes, may you will have a few friends, but they are a real ounces, may you will talk little words, but they are who you are, and may you loose a big chances, but you will earn your treasurable self. My friend, that's what my mother taught it to me, and that's what I advice you to do.
Finally, never trust a man who speaks well of or with everybody. God bless you my friend.
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dear stephen,
I agree with friends in general. What i want to add is that, the root of this misdeed, is fear. Fear of missing some benefits, fear of missing friends, fear of make somebody angry, fear of losing our stations, fear of people's opinion. But it's so good to know the problem and start to solve it, and good to have friends around to remind us the way .
Thx for mentioning this important topic.
My friend, firstly learn how to be honest with yourself, then.......no matter will happened. Yes, may you will have a few friends, but they are a real ounces, may you will talk little words, but they are who you are, and may you loose a big chances, but you will earn your treasurable self. My friend, that's what my mother taught it to me, and that's what I advice you to do.
Finally, never trust a man who speaks well of or with everybody. God bless you my friend.
I like to say, "truth hurts, so does hitting your head on the wall"!