As we always like to enjoy every bit of our time and be happy, so I thought to share few points that I follow, which really helped me and kept me happy. If anyone can give a try it will surely make a difference in your life.
We all need balance life like we need balance diet for our body. Balance live for me means, we should be conscious of your work, religion, health and time. If you are conscious about this four things, I am sure you will enjoy your life to the fullest.
Many people after joining service, they don't like their job and always get depressed with their work. From my opinion, I feel that it’s all because of his/her limited knowledge in the field and another thing is his/her interest. If you don't like what you are doing than life is killing you and you will become sick one day. Therefore, to enjoy your work and stay happy, it’s always better to take interest and learn more in depth and be superior to your friends in terms of knowledge. Avoid the ego problems and don’t hesitate to learn from anyone, even if he/she is junior to you. . One day you will feel confident, your co-workers will trust and appreciate you and you will surely enjoy working at your office.
Though some people have reached high level in religious aspects and attained many practices and are religious minded but there mind from inside has never changed and have no understanding. We all have not attained practice in depth yet our mind can play a big role by contributing something for others who are suffering. We can always help and feel pity for the sentient beings by putting our self in their place. Even if it's not possible to help them because they are far, you could help them with your mind by feeling sorry and saying few prayers, this will not only help those who are suffering but will purify your mind and always make you conscious about life and sufferings. It’s a good practice and will lead your life better with good attitudes at work place and can suite you working with different peoples. As far as possible help someone if it's in your hand. Even if you can't help them with your hand help them with your mind. Please try doing it, God will always look on to you and bless you.
Many of us don't know how to take care of our health. As a saying "Health is more important than wealth" We should always give high priority to our health to enjoy a healthy life. We should know what is good and what is bad for our health then only you and your family will stay healthy and happy. If we are sick or someone from our family is sick, we always pray for god to make him alright. We also think if he/she is cured we will really feel relieved and enjoy and stay happy forever. But when we are in good health we never bother to take care of our health, we always like to eat delicious food, junk food and never think it will affect us in a long run. If we are always taking junk food and not taking balance diet, one day or rather we will have a health problem. Eating the right food can avoid many domestic problems like tensions, worries, and financial. So please be conscious of your health by reading about balance diets and educate your family about it, you will see a lot of changes in your life.
Many of us never know how to manage time. I feel that the most important thing in our life is time management. If you spent your time in a very good way, you will be able to achieve many things, avoid stress, accidents and headache too. Never pile up your work or postpone your work, you will feel stressed at the end. Most of the people waste time being addicted to drinking alcohol, drugs, chat in office and gossip in the office. We all do this because we are not conscious of time. This may have happened because we couldn’t manage time properly and didn’t use it in the right way. We should remind ourselves and divert to acquiring something whenever we are gossiping or wasting our time. By managing time you will be able to lead the life smoothly and pleasantly without much trouble. By staying engaged learning something you are really using the best use of time, doing it regularly, you will feel like to learn more and more. If you are at office and you are free, try browsing internet on many good topics those can help you and make you feel happy. For me I always read MyEC blogs, BBC news, health and more which are of benefit. Whenever you are traveling to far away distant, move ahead of time to prevent from over speed and accidents.
From my own experience, sometimes, without any reason I feel depressed, so that time I engage/divert my mind on something that I enjoy. Since I am interested in music, I just listen to music and it’s gone in few minutes. And whenever I gossip with my friends, I just remind myself and quit and start doing something. Mind always need guidance, we should always give a change in life and work for the betterment of life.
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Islam, thanks for going through my blog and commenting it... I am really encouraged and happy.. thanks a lot...
Thank you chenchu,
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