Aren't They Tired?

Nowadays, I've noticed that MyEC members fight too much on the issues like gender and religion. It seems like everyone is too stubborn to understand other person's views. Irony is that people keep fighting and keep trying to convince others despite knowing the fact that they would never succeed in doing so. Everybody wants to speak, but nobody wants to listen, or more correctly, people only listen to get more reasons to continues their useless debate.

Sometimes I read people's comments and replies to each other and think why don't they just get tired of doing the same thing over and over again? Most of the members would say that this is their way of improving their writing skill. Although I do agree with this to a certain extent, I think people cross their limits more often than not and aren't afraid of hurting their fellow members' feelings. I believe that even the freedom of expression and freedom of speech should have certain limits. The moment someone reaches the point from where they start hurting other human beings' feelings, they should be stopped. This is the very reason all the civilized societies have ethics, laws and values. It looks like, however; that MyEC, which is a virtual society in my personal opinion, doesn't have any, unfortunately. We, the members, come from different countries, have different ethnic backgrounds, have different religious beliefs/or don't have a religious belief at all, etc. If we refrain from indulging in activities that turn friends into foes, MyEC would be a much better place to learn English and make friends.

P.S. Don't even try to start a new debate here. :D

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  • In single word, it is called " CONSPIRACY ".

  •        I have no more to say. 2643790012?profile=original

  • Hi Nida,

    I agree with you, though in our reality we can't avoid this sort of argue, agree and disagree etc. There are always happen around us event we don't aware or not. But I though these are normal and we could take a positive things from all of those and use them to improve ourselves to be a better person, I said it is ideally :). Thanks for sharing your point of view with us. 

  • Well, it's the old age argument. People just love to argue for the sake of arguing. Freedom of speech to the fullest. Hooray! Hooray!

  • Arif Saeed, Lucinka, AG, Night, Evangelina, Lady Anne, Frank and Elf-Noor,

    I'm so glad to read your thoughts on this topic.

    Bes, you're allowed to do whatever you want to do here. But do you even need my permission? :D And as you yourself said, our fights were of the people who not only loved each other, their love and friendship grew more and more after every single fight. Girl, you made me feel so nostalgic! :) No, you didn't forget anyone....it's they who have forgotten us completely. :(

    And here's the revival of the legendary table you so often miss! ;)

  • So true..
    I really agree with your each and every talk what u have said in this blog...
    Thanks for sharing ur thoughts.. Yup even freedom has also some limits.. :))
  • Wow... Frank loves arguments and debates, too!  I guess you belong to people who write with pens only and never attach your feelings to what you write.

    Men are tougher than women when it comes to dealing with heated discussions or debates.  

    Sorry bes..... I think I am inviting a debate here, hahaha!  But I don't think that this page will ignite into a fiery arena of debates.   I rarely see a woman's blog being attacked by them.

    But crazy people like us have the power to ruin this blog, hahaha! Oh where are you, Rabab, Notears, Yasmine, Talibah, Leeah. Is there someone I forgot to mention?  

  • You need to revive that bloody table of yours........kekeke!

  • My bessss..... Just a while ago, I saw your message on my page and the PS. Wanna reiterate the PS here....

    P.S. How I miss our fights!

    Suddenly, this blog came into existence, lol!  Now what?  

    I know, I know.  Ours is a different kind of fight.  Ours is a fight of the innocent and sensitive people, a fight to love, a fight to make us closer than ever, a fight of the mature and a fight to drive us rolling from laughing out loud.  I do miss those fights, too.  Also, with the other WOW gals.  (Reminiscing back our fights in Talibah's blog). How others readers laughed at our own fights, too!

    Today, you can see a different kind of fight.  So different from ours.  Today's fight is kinda trampling your own idea just to impose their own.  Today's fight is a sign of callousness, totally lacking in decency and respect.  Aren't they aware that by doing this, they are showing how their parents reared them up?  Or maybe, they feel proud in showing how their minds work that way.

    I am just sorry to see some decent members fall preys under their baits.  But, freedom of expression has gotten its new definition ..... shall we say, barbaric definition? 

  • Nida, I think it is good to show, what we think and I agree that we hardly can change others. In fact, I am scared of making atheist from believer who is surrounded only by other believers - it would be tragedy .. however, I want to show the way I think and express myself here :) Arif is right, let's not take it all so seriously ...
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