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There are more than 7 billions people over the world. Can you imagine where they come from? Of course, they come from an uterus of mother. Since we were living in mother's uterus, it means that we need someone who not only feed us but love us. A love of a mother is so precious. We keep growing all the time. We meet new people and get new experiences in life. We can distinguish what is better or worse for our life. We choose our inner circle. And in some circumstances, we feel alone. We feel nobody really understand us. Nobody can support us. Nobody perfectly loves us. We feel lost in a dark hole. We want to hide. We want to die. We want to... just take rest of life forever and leave our problems. 

Yea I think, maybe not all people but most of people ever had such thoughts. They feel tired of life. They become so sad and trust nobody else. They don't know how to deal with their problems. Some of them cope them up with cigarettes, drugs, alcohol, and so on. They feel relieved after consuming or doing such activities to forget their problems, to kill their loneliness. For them, it is their happiness. They feel okay of what they do. They don't need somebody else to preach them. But, don't they think it such a harm thing to do? They kill themselves unconsciously but sure. If people say "I think all of us will die. Don't take it too serious". Yes, we will die sooner or later. But we can choose the way how we die. Maybe we will suffer a serious disease for so long time before we die, which it take a big cost, energy, and stressful situation for people around. 

That is an example of feeling insecure. Sometimes we think a lot of life. We worry too much about our future life. We worry of what people say about us. We worry if we couldn't make others happy. We are not satisfied with our works. We don't get sufficient affections from family or friends. We are confined in a very excessive worries. We don't enjoy our life. Those are the natural things of being a human. So what should we do to tackle our insecurities? 

First of all, you must take a principle to yourself about positive thinking. We might be asked how can people deal with positive mind while they can't even think clearly? I believe, we must have one close friend whom we really trust. Try to share with her/him. But what if I'm not sure that s/he will accept me and my problems? Share with God. There is a saying that God will never disappoint you. Try to communicate with God in great ways. It is not easy for some people because they will think "God doesn't answer my problems". So the second thing to do is be patient. We must be patient and improve ourselves to be better while waiting for God's next plan. We keep searching the best way and never give up. When we feel tired, we should take a rest for a moment until we get our clear mind comes back. The last thing to do is to be sincere. We have to train ourselves to be sincere of what have happened in the pass or will happen in the future. But that doesn't mean we lost our spirits and motivations in life. The key is: keep doing the best! Never harm ourselves nor others!

Maybe it is hard to deal our problems with these 3 steps idea. But we can learn. Learn to control our ego and emotion. Do some meditation that make us feel relax. And learn how to be positive thinking in all situations. I believe that "the mind is a prayer". Maybe you are very familiar about the saying "The power of mindset". So that's what I mean. So, are you feeling insecure today? 

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When I'm writing this blog, deep in my heart I feel insecure of something in my future. This is the sadness I feel. This is the way I drain my emotions through writing and hope that everything will be okay. I'm too much worried about future. And it really distract me. So I try to give some lessons I learn to all of you :)