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Hello my EC friends,

I am posting my old blog because I had lost it. Most of you might have read it before. 

We human beings are very judgmental and tend to label other people on the basis on how they behave towards us. We label people like kind, callous, arrogant, betrayer, cunning, indifferent and so on.

Here I would like to discuss people who have always been labelled as “Indifferent”. You all must have faced a situation when whenever you go to the wedding ceremony or birthday party, a list of complaints you hear from your friends or relatives that you never attend their phone calls on time or reply to their text messages and chat.

Very often we confront with indifferent people in our life. We detest or distaste them for being ignorant towards us. It’s quite natural to feel awful when you are ignored by someone.

Have you ever bothered yourself to figure out what could be the possible reasons of other people who are being ignorant? In my point of view there could be some reasons why people are ignorant towards others, perhaps they are not true.

1. Introvert Personality: Some people are introvert and their comfort zone is very limited. For them, it is just their family n very close friends.
2. Laziness: Contrary to the “Introvert personality” some people are real lazy due to which they always procrastinate their work (Ignorant towards work), shows less interest in conversation and never reply or respond to others text messages, phone calls, e-mails etc promptly.
3. Victims of Ignorance: Some people become ignorant or tend to ignore those who had ignored them.
4. Circumstances: According to a saying “If you ignore someone then you teach them to live without you”. Life is the best teacher which teaches us everything; In fact, it would compel us to be away from our loved ones. In such cases, we often ignore them completely to teach them to live without us.
5. Lack of Time management: Some people couldn’t manage time properly, they are so much busy in work and hence fail to communicate or stay in touch with kith n kins or other people whom they know.

I feel somewhere we all are a little bit Aloof; it could be towards our work, family, and friends. We just need to put little efforts to be more attentive.

Now I turn towards EC members, Very often I miss some Private messages sent by some members and always members complain that I never reply their messages or I simply ignore them....LOL. Sometimes I just log in to Ec and do other work.

I would like to say to all members I do not ignore anybody. If somewhere I am I would try to avoid it.