The sprout of happiness gets germinated inside your heart, lighting your soul, flaring your eyes, and glowing your face with romantic emotions when you hear the magic words “I love you”. His warm arms around, cool swift breeze, fading and setting sunlight, and his hypnotic voice makes everything romantic. Heart becomes drunk with happiness and you wish this time never ends. Seems everything is going on right direction and you feel like you can live all your life in his warm embrace. And this love is the blissful ecstasy which always make you high. And heart screams in joy “Yes!!! You are my soulmate”. Such is the beauty of true love that drives your heart, an eternal power that inspires you to go through every obstacles, protects and defends every bit of sweet memories proving that you are in love madly.
However, is love always this romantic? Can you remember “when was the last time that your heart was broken into pieces?” Those broken promises, solemn loneliness, congestion of the heart with pain, falling down of your dream castles into pieces turn you into a numb creature. While all your dreams being slayed, a background music “Don’t you remember” by Adele gives a piercing blow into your heart for real and you can’t even easily describe it. More and more your shattered dreams turn into something nasty and bitter that you can’t even swallow.
So, why love cannot always be romantic? Why it has pain, hate, tears in its back pocket? Why it turns us into a greedy, jealous creature who desires of having you solely? Is it love or something else that brings all the pain, greed, jealousness, and castle of desires?
Is it wrong to wish Love to be simple, pure without these desecrations? Sometimes it feels like when you are in love you start to raise the bar of expectations, a lot of expectations, and a lot of selfish desires that burdens up the weight of love and even slightest tremor quakes the whole foundation. Isn’t it possible to love someone without any expectations and greed? If we give love, warm embrace, support, inspiration and happiness without any expectation of return. May be it is just an abstract idea to think that love without greed, desires, expectations would make love simply pure and eternal.
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@Legend: Thanks friend.You are welcome.
@Just User: Thank you very much for you corrections and appreciation.I am very much grateful to you for your effort.
Very suitable title, I will not comment the idea as you have very objectively discussed it in your nice blog.
But as you are tagging "corrections", so I want to mention few ones here;
1- ......lightening your soul...
2- .....which always makes you high......
3- .....while all your dreams being slew......
4- ......expectations in return.....
Very good blog and very well written, good luck.
Thank you Reeyaz for correcting your name, its looks nice now.
@SISSY TIN: Do you mean I have a dark mind hehehhe??? Any ways thanks for your comments.
@MAHMUD: I am not sure abstractness is source of creativity.Possibly there are thousands of heart break in a day and all of them does not result in creativity.
@Ratu: Its story of everyone who is in love. Yah in true sense we will realize the sweetness and bitterness of love... yet the pain greed and desires are inevitable.But may be you are in LOVE in Jungle ratu.
@MAYA: I agree with you too much expectations brings more hurt. so lets enjoy what we have without any expectation.
I would like to thank all of you for your nice comments and opinions.
expecting too much can hurt you too much...all i can say is, if you're in love and in a relationship that makes you grow as a better person then you just enjoy it until its there...we never know what happen next...
Reeyaz, is it your experience? or based on true story...
When a guy talk about love, mostly logic, but sometimes love is beyond your logical thinking, when u ask a girl "why u love me so?" the answer maybe " I don't know" but a guy will keep asking until they got the logic answer.
why love cant always be romantic, it is pain in it, jealousy, etc..if love always be romantic love will lose the meaning, no pain no gain ree, and I guarantee we will get bored,
Love is abstract and always be an abstract, logical thinking will make you so tired, coz we cant explain love in a proper way with logic.
In the end of love journey, we will find the solution, we will accept the sweet or the bitter taste of love.
I don't know much about love, but when it come to us, we know how it feels. nice blog reeyaz..I love it abstractly
We are only human! So we can't get past the darkest side of our mind easily. Again, only for being human we can do miracle as well! So nothing is impossible when human mind is associated, even the 'abstract' love you are talking about. :)
@ LUCI: I totally agree with your opinions. I am sure your husband is quite happy with you hehehe.. you know how to deal with your love.
@ Legend: name is REEY@Z | Z@YƎƎЯ mirror view LOL...
@ LUCI: Yah Love is mostly based on trust , i agree on this. But Is it abstract idea to think love without greed, desires, expectations???
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