Forgiving is something very difficult for many people, specially for someone who has been hurt in the recent past, but soon or later we must to face that tough reality, whether choosing forgiveness or keeping those hard feelings in our hearts for a long period of time. Even forgiveness is something difficult to learn for many nations, religious groups, political parties and so on. Forgiving doesn't mean weakness or let others continuing abusing us, it's just the opposite.
Forgiveness can facilitate the way to clean our soul and make a new start, a new life path. Leaving behind the angry and those feelings of revenge or getting even with someone or something is the best way to evolve and find inner peace.
Are you able to forgive someone who has hurt you in the past? Or maybe forgiveness is not in your life dictionary? Is that old phrase "Never forget and never forgive" a rule of life for you?
Let me know your thoughts about it.
Student
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"Forgiving is relieving".
That's all I can say, Student. Thank you for sharing this great topic. Keep writing!
Best,
Onee
Mishaikh, thanks for sharing your wisdom! Absolutely agree with you!
Our creator has made us weak. We anyway err. He has guided us to come to him and repent. He will forgive. So forgiveness is Divine. Godly thing.
Thank you so such for your comments and opinions about this issue. Your thoughts are like medicine to many people who have some struggles coping with forgiveness in their lives.
Hi student,
I am kind of person who cannot forget things easily and what others did with me. It always depends on the situation whether it is friend, relative or loved ones somewhere in my heart all tye things which has been happened to me and caused a deep hurt to me seema to appear again n again.
if i am really hurt it takes me months or even years to overcome it. So i take too ling to forget forgive but i move on. Dont stay with those people who have hurt me.
Obviously my parents are exception. :)
In my opinion, it's always important what happened.
As for me, forgiveness has nothing to do with forgetness. There might have been things happening we can forgive, but can never forget.
Also, sometimes, we can't forgive, but for our inner peace, we accept things that happened, because we know that revenge, eternal anger, and hate don't change anything. It is not about to do a favor for the offender, it's rather to do it for ourselves. So we make our peace with it.
We can say forgiving is easy when we are not in a situation having to forgive something.