Hello my friend in my e club!How are you?This my second blog post . I have a problem . I think i want some advices from you . It's about my close friend.I and she have known each other for five years. We had three years to study the same school . we are people who lived far from the family to study . Firstly , i met her , i thought she is a special person .She told me about many things of her .Later, we were increasingly close .She is my close friend . However , I recognized that we are different about many things .We like the moon and the sun . My mean is that we are very different . People said that two poles which are different signs ( The positive pole and The negative pole ) attract each other .She is very tall ,but I am short .She told very much , I didn't .She had many boy to flirt , i hadn't .She is amorous , but i am not .She studied historical class , i studied informatics class .She boasted , but i 'm careful in my language .Her room wasn't far from mine . So she used to visit to my room. And so was i . we used to go out and have dinner together . We used to talk each other about all things in school , live , friend , etc. We used to quarrel each other but she often made peace with me and all things later were good .Because my character is different from her so we have some contradictions . She used to amorous . It made me uncomfortable . I gave her some advices but she still continued to take mistakes. I told : "you don't amorous. And many things which you told me aren't true . If you continue everyone don't trust you " . I was actually dear to her and wanted her progress . She usually told me about boys who flirt her so much that i pall with her stories .She told that she had problem with some one of them _ they used ruses to have her . Thank to she is intelligent so she deal with them completely . I 'm angry with her : " Why other one don't have any problem but you usually have ?? What did you do to make them do these things ? " " you don't like any one " . We didn't tell any thing each other three days later . But finally ,all things were good . We still were close .I know that she have many mistakes but she is very kind of me . When i are sad , she makes me smile and glad . I 'm happy to have a friend such her.But since we studied at Universities , we haven't been close . Her University is far from mine.She is less to visit me and i am too . We do not usually contact and not talk each other . I recognize we have a distance which we both know but no one say it . We both have new friends and have to study ,earn money. We both have changed . People said that friendship can not decrease by Distance . I think so. But i don't know why we aren't close as former ?Could you give me some advices ?
When she have times, I'll tell her that she's reasonless by my sincerly. And she usually smile and say that " we're good friends"...
That's a good friend of u. Keep her beside u by ur way. ...
The good way help us have the best action...
Pls, choose ur way u want !.
. ^^ .
Good luck!
Hey, I've read ur story and feel that u had a good friend. U'd better think a large of this problems. I think u know that every people doesnt be the same to each other. And we must to have a different details. Nobody like they have the same together, because I think we have to our style. So, when we accept the different from ur friend, u can accept all. Dont think that I am a duck and she is a flower. I think u'd better think without inhibition...
I have a friend. She's always angry with me because of any reasion that make her angry. And I always make her smile and I remove my thinking that she is reasonless. I accept any action from her and smile with her anytime, anyway...
I dont know u believe in Buhhad. But I believe that when we have the patience, we can have many things we want.
So, why u dont contact with her? Why u dont come her house? Why u dont smile with her and talk to her many stories of u and listen her stories. U can think that it's a " to give " and " to receive" together. And it make together the best freedom.
Hope u have a good advance of yourself.
Your Sincerely
LinhNguyen
Don't let you in sadness,uncertainty or all things that bother you ...
do something! until you get the answer ...
for me, a close friend is everything ...
-Nadiyah-
Your comments :
Thank for all advices of you. I actually consider her be my close friend. But i can not understand state of our relation now.
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That's a good friend of u. Keep her beside u by ur way. ...
The good way help us have the best action...
Pls, choose ur way u want !.
. ^^ .
Good luck!
I have a friend. She's always angry with me because of any reasion that make her angry. And I always make her smile and I remove my thinking that she is reasonless. I accept any action from her and smile with her anytime, anyway...
I dont know u believe in Buhhad. But I believe that when we have the patience, we can have many things we want.
So, why u dont contact with her? Why u dont come her house? Why u dont smile with her and talk to her many stories of u and listen her stories. U can think that it's a " to give " and " to receive" together. And it make together the best freedom.
Hope u have a good advance of yourself.
Your Sincerely
LinhNguyen
I support you so much ...
take care,
-Nadiyah-
Thank you for giving me a chance to reconsider our relation.
Thank you for giving me a chance to reconsider our relation.
do you already take a decision? for something urgent, don't ever delay ...!
I am waiting your answer ... I hope happy ending ... Good luck!
take care,
-Nadiyah-
say to her :
-Nadiyah-
Don't let you in sadness,uncertainty or all things that bother you ...
do something! until you get the answer ...
for me, a close friend is everything ...
-Nadiyah-
Your comments :
Thank for all advices of you. I actually consider her be my close friend. But i can not understand state of our relation now.
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