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You cannot give what you do not have.                                   

            You’ve loved and then you’re hurt. Now you’re fighting for your life on the hospital. Did it ever come into your mind what will happen next after you committed suicide? After life is not the end, because there’s more longer life after death; and it’s up to you on which path you would take.

            You have given everything you have but it’s still not enough. Your relationship ended like that in just a snap. You asked yourself with so many questions; what did you do or what did you didn’t do to make him stay. But the thing that you must ask is did you love yourself as you have loved him? Or you have love yourself less? It’s confusing especially when what you’re doing is making you happy. But happiness with something that makes you empty is not the kind of happiness that would last a lifetime instead it will only make you feel worthless as time goes by.

            It is true that you must love unconditionally but it also has its own limitations. I believe that love do not rejoices in wrong doings that is why all things that is made filthy within a relationship is not made out of love instead out of the obscenity of the world. Love brings joy not only on the emotional aspect but also spiritually. If you learn to love truly, you will learn to love God even more because when you’re in love, every day is a miracle. Staying in love in everything that God has given you is an invaluable gift.

            Do not dwell into things that would only make you forget God’s purpose of giving us the opportunity to feel love; for us to be thankful and recognize Him as our powerful and ever loving God. When you’re hurt, you can cry out to God. Seek for Him every time you feel so down; He is always willing to listen. Talk to people you’re comf’table with; they love you as who you are. Ending your own life is not the answer to all the miseries you are feeling right now but the start of you’re suffering after life in this world. Be thankful that you felt broken heartedness because it is God’s way of telling you that He saved you from a wrong person.

            Live, laugh and love. Be thankful for everything you have. Learn the lesson from every pitfall and appreciate all the hurt for making you even stronger and closer to God.