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You meet different kinds of people every day. However, not all of them are liked by you. In fact, all are not friends but some of them are your enemies also. In the movies, you find people deal with their enemies by fighting or facing them. Actually you need to minimize their power in any way.

Eliminate your enemies from your life or give them less entrance in your life. But it is not always possible to completely remove people. But you can stop calling them back. You may stop making contacts with your enemies. And then you will be safe from their negative influence. If you keep them aside, and forbid them to carry the negative activities anymore, they will be unable to make use of ignorance as his or her defense.

 Always behave politely to your enemies. But don’t represent yourself as a person of easy prey. You should place yourself to the top position. Express your feelings to your enemy directly and clearly. But don’t use any vulgar language or raise your voice. This kind of your behavior will keep your enemies aloof having weapons to use against you in future clashes.

Dealing with your enemy, using non-conflictive language provides your enemy less opportunity to work against you. He will be unable to continue conflict with you for a long time.

Never be trapped by the provocation of your enemy to start a new clash.  Your enemies will always try to create an embarrassing situation for you. They will also make many dirty, mean comments about you and your work, family or other friends. So, just ignore them.

Try to avoid those places where your enemies go frequently.  Stay away from your enemies as much as possible.

It is true that enemies are unavoidable. Dealing with enemies is not easy or you cannot handle it by a clean-cut method. So, take care of your enemies with good conduct and appropriate manner so that you can tackle them in a correct way.