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We have choice in making friends but we have no choice in having parents, they are God gifted.

Why God created parents, because he cannot stay with us all time so, he made parents to have us feel that God is always with us.

Nobody in this world could ever nurture us unconditional as parents do. They always have so big heart to excuse our mistakes which we sometime commit repeatedly or more than hundred times and again they show us love with the same flow.

Writing and sharing only about my single parent is not easy for me because I love both my mom and dad. Both are imperative for me. They are my role models in life. But today I am giving here a big tribute to my hero dad.

Every daughter sees her father as a first hero in her life.
It’s by nature that Dad always more attractive and lovely towards caring daughters.

Since I got awareness and conscious to understand things around me I had always found my dad working and working hard to have his Children good life, to fulfill their needs, to give them good education upto his potential.

I never ever saw my dad any day taking rest and sleeping I saw him working even on his ill days.
He always stress on education and less watching of television at home. He even today also focuses on growing by Education and becoming independent and keeps on working on your goals.
Whenever I felt sometime down finding relatives mean behavior towards our family, My dad advised me one wisely thing, he had given me an example: Family is like five fingers, no figure is equal to the other, one day your cousins will become rich, or some of your relatives will become very poor, in a miserable condition, even though one day you will may find your own brother and sister very successful and even underprivileged. But in all odds of life we have to love and respect each other and have to stay united.

My dad had left his job in abroad for his love towards his Father and came back to India.
A big salute to my papa how he and my mother taken care of my grandpa whole life, I saw my grandpa on bed for complete two years how my parents cared for him in his last days, I felt so broken when I saw my dad crying badly first time ever when his dad left the world……….. I also got the same sanskars from my family to always care for my parents as they did. My grandpa said golden words in his last days to my dad the way you and your wife cared for me made me felt so proud to have a son like you I have nothing to give you in return except the blessings. My grandpa said to my dad you had proved your name Shravan, the same Shravan in Ramayana story taken care of his parents till their last breath.

One day I said to my dad I am so unhappy that I am earning so less. Then my dad said me whenever you feel down that you not earning much just have a look on those who are earning or having salary less than you even. If they are happy with what they have why not you.
I always feel myself like a princess beneath the dad love.

The second big tribute goes to my Father in law who is also my Father. He also takes care of my needs Whenever I get ill he always ask me to take leave and fix appointment with Dr. The way he take care of my daughter remind me of the days my grandpa loved me...............................makes me go into flash back thinking my daughter is also so lucky like me. He always treated me like his own daughter and never let me feel like his daughter in law.
Everybody is working at my home he is taking care of my daughter.
Even though he is going through many treatments, medical prescriptions every few weeks, he had liver failure, He is suffering from major diseases, though he so keen in taking care of my daughter.

But a best gift any dad can give to his daughter is only loving her mom.

A big Salute to my lovely Papa’s. Happy Father’s Day Papa and Papa ji.