These are 7 golden rules that my friend's have and thanks God he is so kind to let me share his rules to others. How I love him so much for letting me share it. These rules are very useful to everyone's life I guess.
So please sit back to your chair and have a read.
1st rule
Don't let someone become a priority in your life when you are just an option in theirs...
Relationships work best when they are balanced
2nd rule
Never explain yourself to anyone
Because the person who likes you doesn't need it
And the person who dislikes you won’t believe it
3rd rule
When you keep saying you are busy, then you are never free
When you keep saying you have no time, then you will never have time
When you keep saying that you will do it tomorrow, then your tomorrow will never come
4th rule
When we wake up in the morning, we have two simple choices
Go back to sleep and dream, or wake up and achieve those dreams
Choice is yours
5th rule
People cry for those who never care for them
And people care for those who will never cry for them
This is the truth of life, it's strange but it's true..
If you realize this, it is never too late for you to change
6th rule
Don't make promise when you are in joy
Don't reply when you are sad
Don't take decisions when you are angry
Think twice and act wise
7th rule
Time is like river.
You can't touch the same water twice,
because the flow that has passed will never pass again
I agree to all this rules, but about rule number 2... Do not you think at least we have to be open to the person who likes us though they do not ask about whom we are? I consider 'the person' in this line as a friend. I got the point from this rule but is not it better to explain yourself a bit and let others know you better? Well, someone should know their friends right?
So far, I keep reminding myself to rule number 1 that relationships work best when it is balanced and also rule number 3 and 4. About rule number 4, hmm.. that is really hard to do. You cannot think very well when you just woke up, can you? :D
How about you? Tell me which rules you like the most and why. I would love to know. I hope these rules can brightened our mind and then we can move forward to a better life and personality :)
Comments
Zsolt: Nice... :D It's Awesome! Thanksssss for sharing!! ^^
Addel: Rules of engagement?? :S
Not the strength, the static nature in which I focused my comment of the word “rule” when used as a noun. Life is a lot more complex, fluid and ever changing than try to compress it into a handful of rules. I do understand most people wish to live their lives by rules. They want clear guidelines, so they can make decisions easier and if they can get away with it, make no decision at all; the easy way out by following the path of least resistance.
So if anything, “rule” does not translate to me as “strong” rather convenience in the context above but I bet this did not cross your mind, did it?
Hmm why? Is it because the word "rule" is to strong?
Well everyone has their own rule, but Zsolt, even a game has fixed rules.. :S
It brings me smile when I read “rules” laid down even if it is with the best of intensions.
For me life is a game with ever changing rules. I stay flexible and adapt to the rules of my neighbor when I am walking on his yard; while I minimize the rules by which I interact with those who chooses to visit me.
Hisham: Thankssss for reading, hope it helps ;)
Unniz: Why?? Can you tell me?
goood postt syuu sis..... Iits all good..but i cannt accept the rule no 3 and 5 fully........
Syubi
Nut shell. Short but sharp. I do have to accept the 2th and 7th in preference order, but I cannot avoid any.
Papap ... keep up.
with regards
Mayumi, Nadira, Anele, Naser, Lucia thanks for your time :)
There was Harry's comment here but I guess his page is no longer exist :S
Mayumi: Good if you know what you need to change from yourself. Hope you succeed with this rules. As for me, I am still struggling with rule number 4 :D Well, with all the rules actually :S
Nadira: Yes Nadira, I also think the same :)
Anele: Well, about rule number 2. I agree with you, friends will always more than willing to lend their ears. The difference is I put myself in my explanation in the blog as 'anyone' in this sentence "Never explain yourself to anyone" while you put yourself as 'you'.
Naser: Hmm yes Naser, rule number 6 is very important at decision making. We can't think logically and rationally when we are in anger, joy or when we feel sad. Well, this rule is not only important for the managers, leaders and supervisors, but also for us, an ordinary people, though the effect of it might not as worse as if we are a managers.
About rule number 7, yes you are absolutely right.
Lucia: You won't dare say this to your daughter :p If she thinks the same way as you think, then you'll be in a trouble. Ask her to come home before 7pm Lucia and I bet you will find her home after 10pm or maybe 11pm :P
Rules are made to violated hehhe.....
where he got those rules? from God? ^0^
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